Sunday, May 10, 2009,7:25 PM
Today's post is dedicated to a special one, thanks for spending so much time with me. Thanks for making so much sacrifices for me. Thanks for everything.
You asked me if i finished the magazine and i said yeap. But i missed out a few pages, i think the pages were sticked together that's why.Anyway this article is about LDR. rather important, very important to us because because...so it teaches us how to maintain LDR. we do wanna maintain things now and then and in the future..
This is what we should do.
1. Lead full lives that are independent of each other. Don't isolate yourself socially.
2. Make plans for the future. An LDR is only a temporary situation. (we do have lots of plans dont we?)
3. Share as many day to day experiences as possible. Keep each other informed via text or e-mail.
4. Schedule a virtual meeting on a regular basis to thrash issues out.
5. Don't lose the romance. Surprise eah other with handwritten letters or mail a thoughtful gift. (give me your address!)
6. Have complete trust in eah other and believe in your own judgement.
and then if we have a hard time staying connected, try these to spice things up!
1. Watch a movie or TV show.
Arrange a movie date night and watch a show together while your webcam is running. you can't snuggle up on the couch but you'll still enjoy a movie together.
2. Learn something new.
not only will you expand your knowledge, you'll be doing it as a couple. find a free course online you'll both enjoy and tutor each other along the way.
3. Play games.
if you cant play real pool together, you can always spar across virtual tables! everybody loves games, so pick a few that you and your beau enjoy. Pit your skills against other players or simply enjoy each other's company over a game. (OMG YOU DONT LIKE TO GAME AS MUCH LEH)
4. Share a journal.
A way to maintain emotional intimacy is to share your thoughts freely. Start an online journal for the both of you to write in. Commit to it even if you only have time to write a few lines.
5. Read a book.
Find a book you both like and agree to read a chapter regularly. Reading together can lead to lots of discussion, which is great when you both feel like you have run out of things to talk about.
Let's work together shall we?
